Sunday, February 7, 2010

Language of Love

Well I think we’ve come a long way since the first day she came out to this world, and US as a parents.  Our goal is always been to raise our little girl thoughtfully and intentionally. We've learned that it's not easy and it takes alot of effort and dedication.

Thanks to Mommy Chris. I've become aware with the basics of Love Languages. So glad that we're doing a good as far as I know.

00215.gif image by bams704 Words of Affirmation.
Honey believes that this is the most essential thing we should teach our (future) kid, COMMUNICATION. We do this as soon as she wakes up. Staying in bed for a little bit, snuggling and talking to your baby (even if she still cant talk) could create a good mood for the whole day .  We're so much extra careful with our words and actions now that Azumi loves mimicking (although sometimes i tend forget but i'm trying not to say bad words in front of her). IT's also important to praise/compliment your child even the simplest or little thing she learns.

00215.gif image by bams704 ON Quality Time.
No questions. I'm with her 24/7. She's my buddy, she's always with me. She's lucky coz we always eat breakfast and dinner together with her Dad. We always take her somewhere she would enjoy, parks, riverside, malls, zoo, groceries, or simple driving around.


00215.gif image by bams704 Physical Touch.
Hugging and snuggling are my two favorite thing .. I think she also loves hugging. When she's on a good mood, you don't have to ask her to kiss you, coz she will.

00215.gif image by bams704 Receiving Gifts
I would like to thank my friends (online and offline) for every lovely gifts they give to Azumi. We really really really appreciate it. We feel so blessed. Thank you so much .
 
00215.gif image by bams704 Acts of Service
I'm kinda OC when it comes to my lil girl . I wash her clothes separately. I iron them. Change her sheets and towel every 2 days. Alcohol is in every corner of the house. When it comes to food, I want it healthy.
When it comes to chores, I now let her stay beside me ( even if she can be too makulit ) and show what I'm doing. I think she's having more interest in sweeping the floors.



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9 comments:

  1. Wow you are notoriously neat with Anzu Bams, keep it up.

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  2. I have a friend who's going to a first-time Mom super soon, I'll make sure she reads this entry of yours. I find it very helpful.
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    If you're a Mom and if you have a little one, I think it's best to be OC. Little babies and kids can be sensitive right? ☮.♥.☆

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  3. Hugging and snuggling are my two favorite thing too. nawawala ang stress ko pag may hug and kiss from my children..

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  4. I lear a lot from you here mommy bamz and how you takes care of you lil dolly. ulirang ina ka talaga bam.

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  5. Kapuri puri nga yung pagpapalaki mo sa anak mo. Hands on at very personal ang pagaalaga mo sa kanya. All that you have written here are all correct and will redound to the benefit of your baby superstar, lol. Please return to my post at Random Thoughts entitled Trusting God. I made an addendum to that post regarding you. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.

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  6. i love the sweeping part... sometimes kasi andrea will just give me the broom because she wants to do the dustpan lol

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  7. You're so lucky to be with your child 24/7. :) I'd love the company but not the work too but it has to have both. Kudos to you for doing a good job. :)

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  8. i believe you are doing a great job mommy! :D kudos to you! :D

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  9. "IT's also important to praise/compliment your child even the simplest or little thing she learns.",so true Bams.I'm sure Anzu will grow up to be a sweet and loving kid because ngayon palang you give her so much love.God Bless!

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